Don’t do the Norm: How to Actually Support Your Child’s Development

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author/source: Alex Brighton

Photo Courtesy of Anna Myslowska on UnsplashAll parents want to support their children’s development. Parents must get involved with their children and support them on their life journey. Most parents will support their children by sending them to school and signing them up for classes. This is all great and can support your child in a variety of ways. However, there are a few things that you can do at home that will significantly help your children and support their development. This kind of help and support goes beyond what they learn in school and will provide your children with a solid foundation for growth.

Development should be a multi-faceted approach. The school provides a lot of academic support for a child's development, as well as providing them with the ability to socialize and learn how to participate in society. However, there are many things not covered in schools, such as mental health, creativity, and more. These are often overlooked but are extremely important to a child's development and future success. This kind of support will help you to model good behaviors and go above and beyond the school curriculum to help your child grow. School is also filled with lots of other children, and they can’t always identify or meet the different needs of children. Working closely with your child outside of school will help you to understand the way that they learn and what their needs are. Then you can tailor your approach to their needs to better support them.

Not to mention, supporting your children in different ways will help you to learn about them and grow a stronger bond with them.

To help you on your journey to support your child’s development from an early age, here are some top tips you need to know.

#1 Take it slow

Many believe the best approach is to bombard their children with activities and games to support their development. This might work for some children, but others will need a different approach. It can be beneficial to any child’s development when they learn how to slow down and be present in the moment.

#2 Have conversations and practice active listening

Talk back and forth with your child. This will help them to develop different social qualities faster. Make sure you practice sitting back and listening to what your child has to say, to make them feel seen and heard.

Photo Courtesy of Alexander Dummer#3 Encourage curiosity and creativity

Encourage your child to be curious. Ask them lots of questions, and encourage them to do the same and keep an open mind. Find out what they enjoy and plan some creative activities. This is excellent for development.

#4 Support their mental wellbeing

Mental health is a very important part of development. As you begin to take it slow and have more conversations with your child, you will begin to learn more about their state of mind. Some children need additional support for their mental health, especially if their development is at a different stage or they are on the spectrum. Support such as ABA Therapy can be very useful.

Your child's development is crucial to how their life turns out. Follow these top tips to help you on your journey.